The reason you think you "can't" is the reason to do it.
Your future success exists in your future. You aren't going to find it in your past.
Your brain doesn't understand this because it's programmed to think in the same familiar, old, repetitive patterns. Just think about your current thoughts about the quality of men on online dating apps, your age, and dating in your city.
Understanding this is the exact reason for breaking the pattern. When you decide to invest in yourself at a high level (perhaps, for the first time), be prepared that it will feel uncomfortable, even scary.
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