Episode 147

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18th Sep 2025

#147 Your Identity

You don’t attract what you want.

You attract who you are.

In this deep and empowering episode, Polina Solda reveals how your identity — the beliefs, emotions, and standards you carry — silently creates your entire experience in love. If you’ve ever felt stuck in repeating the same patterns, choosing the same types, or settling for less than you desire, it’s time to shift who you’re being.

Because when your identity upgrades… so does your relationship life.

Inside this episode, you’ll discover:

  • How your identity attracts (or repels) aligned love
  • Why trying harder won’t work without identity work
  • The difference between doing the work and being the woman
  • A powerful identity shift to stop settling and start magnetizing
  • Real-world examples of transformation through identity alignment


This isn’t about changing for a man — it’s about becoming the woman who chooses herself, respects herself, and creates her reality on purpose.


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The Future of Relationships podcast helps you find love without drama or wasted time. Professional certified coach and dating and relationship expert Polina Solda teaches you how to find your man with her simple, proven process. You can’t learn this anywhere else. It’s going to change your entire dating experience.

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